Love Relationships

Love Relationships are so misunderstood and many relationships fail due to the lack of the right knowledge,

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These articles on Love Relationships following through to Save The Marriage are based on my own personal experiences and I believe they will not only confirm your inner feelings about love and Marriage but will also challenge you in a way you have never been challenged before concerning Sexual Relationships.

On the whole, sexual relationships are taken for granted but unfortunately create many issues when not taken seriously for what it is and not for what we want it to represent.

Unfortunately, Sexual Relationships and not love have become the foundation of most so called Love Relationships in this modern world under the guise of 'love', Needless to say this perception has also become the foundation for relationship break downs.

The first question everyone needs to ask is this, “what was it that firstly attracted me to my present partner?”

Physical Attraction/Good Looking

When anyone meets a potential partner (male or female) for the first time they are usually drawn together through physical attraction which usually progresses into a Sexual Relationship and hopefully into something more meaningful such as Love Relationships. This kind of attraction usually has sex being entered into reasonably early in the proceedings 'thinking' it is love - but this may not be the case.

If relationships grow from this starting point then there are a few things people need to be aware of and the main one is that beauty is only skin deep and it is behind the skin where true Love Relationships exist.

It's this physical attraction which is also responsible for the inevitable ‘one night stand’ and when it’s all boiled down in the cold light of day, this is a meaningless relationship based on self gratification not love and destined to fail because they are not Love Relationships.

Being Wealthy

When a relationship developed because a partner had wealth, then the odds are boredom will set in as they become accustomed to the wealth and will want something more.

The person may not be wealthy in the future due to unforeseen circumstances which places a huge stress on the relationship and you may wonder how you will cope with no money

Being Cool

Should a relationship be developed because of someone being seen to be ‘cool’ then you will no doubt have realised this is a young person’s thing. Being cool is not generally a term used for people in middle age where the fire in the belly has changed prompting the question “what’s happened to the person I knew, they used to be such fun”.

Being Attractive

This is a tricky one for any relationship because attraction can also be included under ‘good looking’ and if this is the case then what is said under that section applies here also.

If however, you look at ‘attractive’ as something more, then you could very well be on the right track to a meaningful Love Relationship. For instance, some people don't know why they are attracted to someone but all they know is that they are and this is very important.

Great Sex

If your relationship started out with this, then I'm sorry to inform you but it is the biggest downfall of all relationships because it indicates the relationship is based on a Sexual Relationship and nothing more. This does not mean ‘great sex’ is not important, but as you read on you will find this is the finale of a Love Relationship and not the opening scene.

Think for one moment of a Sexual Relationship being the final communication of a Love Relationship and not the beginning, I am sure you will agree that great sex would be a normal result.

I will touch on this again under Communication because people do not recognise that Sexual Relationships are a form of communication telling a very important message.

Spiritual Attraction

You may have heard the saying that the eyes are the windows to your soul; well it may or may not come as any surprise to anyone that this is more accurate than people can imagine and is important for Love Relationships.

We often hear people say that something did not 'feel' right with a person because of the look in their eyes. It will be no surprise to learn that by looking deep into the eyes of someone it is possible to get a connection and sense who they really are. In other words making communication with the 'spirit' and 'soul' of the person.

When two people come together in a Sexual Relationship they are joined together as one person spiritually and as such there is a little of each person's spirituality transferred to the other being what some would call a soul or spiritual tie and is part of all Love Relationships.

Never underestimate the power of Sexual Relationships because the more sexual partners we have, the greater risk we have of seeing sex as just one of those self satisfying things to do. What it really means is explained under communication.