Save The Marriage

Save The Marriage is an interactive article which takes a look at ‘Spending Quality Time With Your Partner’ in an effort to Save Your Marriage or any Relationship and although this may appear to be pretty basic many of us fail to pay sufficient attention to it and tend to get lost in the business of the day.

So how much quality time do you spend in your Relationship together with your partner in any one day, or even a week in Hours and Minutes? Work it out before you move on.

Although this may appear a little tedious right now but this is the very first place to begin if you wish to Save The Marriage or Relationship.

Also, it may not be as simple as you would think because in some relationships there are partners who may be travelling most of the time and only come home at weekends.

Others may work shifts with one at home asleep during the day whilst the other is out working and vice versa, and some may even be in the armed forces which means that they can be away for months at a time and this in itself creates a strain on any Relationship or any attempt to Save The Marriage if it's in trouble. You will need to be brutally honest with yourself if you wish to know the correct amount of ‘Quality’ time you spend in your Relationship in terms of Hours and Minutes.

From your earlier workings out you should have a rough idea about the answer to this question. Now let's add a little something else into the mix and you will really understand about how difficult it is to Save The Marriage or Relationship with all these factors involved.

Out of a 24hr day we are generally asleep for 33% (1/3) of the time, we are working for 33% (1/3assuming no overtime) of the time leaving only 33% (1/3) to do what we want to do - or does it, what about all the extras such as preparing dinner, eating, doing the garden, taking kids to school, sports, washing, ironing, shopping etc, etc?

So what is the point of this little exercise I hear you say?

To Save The Marriage or Relationship requires some very difficult decisions to be made by both parties and you will now see how difficult that will be after completing all your adding up, in fact I would guess you are now wondering how you get everything done.

Many times in Relationships people feel there is not enough time in the day and are too tired to ‘perform’ for their partners at night, and in many ways they may be quite right. So what hope is there to Save The Marriage with so little time available you might ask.

Now you have established there is no time in the day to spend in your Relationship let's look at a very simple idea to overcome this issue and make life more interesting.

Save The Marriage

When you and your partner get together for the first time after work you should sit down together for half of one hour and unwind together. Choose a comfortable chair which can hold the both of you and you ladies should sit on the man’s knee so you can cuddle each other.

Right now you may find this suggestion amusing but let me take this opportunity to remind you of the early days in your relationship, this was probably something you did every day so why did it stop, and why should it be amusing if it will begin the process to Save The Marriage or Relationship???

Quality time with your partner is connecting with each other and moving away from the rigors of the day. One thing we are all guilty of is permitting the romance in our lives to diminish into having Sexual Relationships instead of reconnecting spiritually by connecting through each others eyes. This will not only let you both unwind together but it will bring you closer together in a ‘spiritual’ way bringing wholesome peace into your lives.

You will have gathered by now that to save any marriage or Relationship both will need to keep the romance alive and not let the busyness of the day intrude into your personal space.

If your life is really hectic and you use a diary, then to Save The Marriage can I suggest you make an appointment with your partner (in both your diaries) because none of this will ever happen if you don’t book an appointment with each other, and you will drift apart in the long term.

If you both try and set this in place in your lives I believe you will not be sorry, remember that spending time together with your partner is not just about being in the same room together, there is a difference and I hope you can now see what it is.